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Are You Sick of Crying Over Molestation? Here is How to Be careful! We destroy the enemy in Jesus’ name Amen!

MYSTERIOUS: A CHILD IS PREGNANT FOR HIS BIOLOGICAL FATHER!

What is Child Molestation?

Child Molestation is also known as child sexual abuse. It is a secret crime involving a range of indecent sexual activities between an adult and a child.

Before you ruin the future of that child in the name of socialization, indecent dressings, and advanced technology you need to read this. Moral and culture gradually eroded in our society. Parents of old grossly ashamed to show off their body, this generation gladly shows their underwear to display the extent of their intelligence and social class. This is what I call educated illiterates.

According to the National Violence Against Children Survey, it established that ,”1 in 4 girls and 1 in 10 boys” experience sexual violence before the age of 18 in one way or the other.

TYPES OF MOLESTATION
👉Defilement
👉-Rape
👉-Fingering
👉-Making a child watch pornography
👉-Exposing the genital to kids
👉-Indecent touching
👉-Fondling etc

WHO COULD ABUSE YOUR CHILD?
ANYBODY.
Studies show that over “95%” of sexually abused children are abused by persons known or close to the child or the child’s family.

ABUSERS ARE MOSTLY NOT STRANGERS
They are right there in your house, co-tenants, family members, lesson teachers, neighbours. Their friends in school, hostel, classmates,class/school teachers, cousins, uncles, nephew, niece, fathers, step fathers, grand fathers, imams, choir masters, pastors, confidants, security guard, maids, family /school drivers, After school teachers , teachers, mummy’s friend, daddy’s friend, caregivers, strangers etc.

Please, do not ask if any of the above is possible because, there is no case of any of the above that has not happened.

CAUSES OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE
Parental negligence, carelessness, non- challant attitude. It is as bad as, No one can be trusted. We have a child presently carrying a baby that belongs to her father

OTHER CAUSES
Parental nakedness and indicent dressing in the present of our children.
Purchasing half naked dress for our kids.
Absentee parents.
Parents who do not observe.
When the kids are not informed…..
What you watch with your kids.
Indecent dressing by our children.

WHERE CAN YOUR CHILD BE SEXUALLY ABUSED?
âś“On your bed
âś“Right under your nose, under your roof
âś“In the school environment- class,toilet etc
âś“Hostel
âś“Parties
âś“ In their room (siblings)
âś“Deserted/Abandoned places
âś“ When you are distracted
Etc

Perpetrators look for opportunities.
5mins is enough to cause a life long damage

HOW DO PAEDOPHILES GET THE VICTIMS?
1.Grooming
2.Baits
a. Emotional bait
b. Gift bait
c. Financial bait
d. Familiarity & Respect bait.

  1. Child grooming
    Befriending and establishing an emotional connection with a child, and sometimes the family, to lower the child’s inhibitions with the objective of sexual abuse. -Wikipedia-
    Gaining the trust of a minor with the intention of having sex relationship with them.

HOW TO IDENTIFY A POSSIBLE ABUSER
A. Always trying to be around your child or vice versa
B. Child feels uncomfortable when he/she sights the abuser or when the abuser is around.
C. Easily and conveniently accept to care for your child while you are away.
D. Can be hard on the child especially if the child is rejecting his “Moses”

If any of the above is observed, please, shine your eyes. Or sometimes, your child might feel uncomfortable /rejecting to go to the person when you send him or her Or even go for holiday.

Sexual abuse happens among sibblings, set rules, separate their rooms, separate their beds. We had a case of twins having sex with each other. When they were asked, they said: we see mum and dad do same*
Why should we be that careless?
Because of the carelessness of both parents,their innocent minds were polluted and their lives were destroyed.

WHAT A PERPETRATOR SAYS TO A CHILD WILLING TO SPEAK OUT
•I will kill u
•You will die
•Your mummy will hate you
•Your mummy will beat you
•Your mummy will blame you.
•Your mummy and your daddy will die.
•He could cut the child, lick the blood and say’ this is a blood convenant between us ,the day you tell is the day you die

Teach your child The “SRR”
action.

S – Shout/scream
R – Run
R – Report

POSSIBLE SIGNS THAT YOUR CHILD HAS BEEN ABUSED


âś“Isolation
âś“Aggressiveness
âś“Anxiety/Fear
âś“Difficulty in walking
âś“Sudden drop in academic performance
âś“Poor social interaction
and so on.

OTHERS
âś“Sexually Transmitted Diseases.

Their dressing is important, dress to cover them please. Teach them privacy. They must knock and seek permission before they enter your room.
It is wrong to bath them together irrespective of sex.

PLEASE NOTE
Children never lie about abuse. If your child tells you someone is trying to mess with him or her…. Please believe the child and respond appropriately.

EFFECT OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE
-The abused child could become a serial abuser
-Depression
-Suicidal thoughts
-Stigma
-Guilt
-Lifelong psychological trauma
-Aggression
-Withdrawn
-Infected with STDs
Etc

THE BOYS
More often than not,we pay more attention to the girls than the boys.
With my years of experience, boys are mostly victims- anal sex but because we do not pay attention.
For them, healing is a terrible process.

WATCH OVER YOUR BOYS : Something might just be happening and you perceive not. Do not be a hard mum. Strike a balance between love and discipline.
Give your children Sex Education proportional to their age. A child of age 2 or even less is due for Sex Eduacation.
Tell them what nobody must do with their body.
Tell them to speak out.
In the house, everyone must respect one another’s privacy.

Child molestation is real, it is more painful if it happens under your very nose.
Please bond more with our Jewels, we want to receive them back to school bigger and better than they left. Above all, pray for them always. The child molesters will not go near them but we must play our part.

Shall We Pray : May you not labour in vain over your children in the Mighty name of Jesus.

Pastor Omoyajowo Sunday Ajayi. Senior Pastor @ The Redeemed Christian Church of God.

Let’s prayer together,

Father I pray this God will turn around your crying into dancing, I take authority on your behalf and command every demonic power to be destroyed in your life now and forevermore in Jesus’ name Amen! Amen! and Amen!

Jesus by your precious blood let everyone be cleansed off and made joyful today. Father thank you for hearing my prayer in Jesus’ name! AMEN! AMEN! AMEN!

LISTEN AND BE BLESSED, BE FILLED BY THE SPIRIT OF GOD!

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WHAT IS PRAYER??? JUDIE TALKS

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